Tuesday, 31 December 2013

Happy New Year

Another year comes to an end and for the coming year I never was waiting for you as I had unrealized dreams every year.
But thanks to  two girls whom I re-connected with through social media despite been in same school....My my!! they share initials too ;-) Girls love you for making me meet LIFE Again and more so for realising its beauty and how amazingly unpredictable it is (aaj hi pata chala one of my chaddi-buddy is getting married...woh b in 9 days).I am actually looking forward to 2014
For the places am going to visit
For the changes am going to make
For the people am going to love
For the dreams am going to live
For the pictures am going to add
For the songs am going to sing
For the movies am going to dance to
For the stars am going to count
For the style am going to adorn
For the wishes am going to make
And for the endless list of "To-Do"....Cheers to life

Thursday, 19 December 2013

Its freezing and my nose is flowing like an open tap and my heart is singing I wish it rained

Monday, 4 November 2013

Love you my friends...xoxo

I never thought that I was a destiny’s child until now.

My mom and dad always keep on preaching that always carry cash more than you need because you don’t know when you’ll need it. And I have been on spontaneous shopping sprees direct from office and then find something amazing but out of cash. Yet I get to buy things WHY and HOW because I always had some very good people as my friends.

When I was in school one of my best buddies was the cashier of our gang. None of us used to get money every day to school but almost more than once a week wanted to eat from the canteen. And our dear friend used to always have cash to give any of the four of us. She had always been independent way before the years and till date I think I need to grow up to be there where she is.

I started working and despite all office politics and jealousy again there was another person who was there to accompany me wherever and whenever I wanted to ferry. We got to go so many places and again every time I was assured that she is there to take care of me. Maybe we were destined to meet and be friends forever as we crossed ways at several places- graduation college, a sudden meet at a bank, some meetings around the city and finally back together at work and finally closer.

Another work place and another atmosphere and kind of people but maybe I am really lucky to again find that special girl to be friends with. And it was two days back that she made me realise that how lucky I am to have all these girls in my life.

Don’t get me wrong but the reason why I am equating friendship with money is that I believe true friendship is tested best in tiring times. With God’s grace these have been the testing times for me. In today’s world when people don’t even trust their loved ones with money trusting a third person in itself proves how much love one has for you in their heart. And only a beautiful soul can do so which is still going strong despite the bitterness the world throws.

I have restored my faith in God and more on the Karma...

”Do good and good you will receive...Be good and goodness you will receive” xoxo

Sunday, 6 October 2013

Everytime it rains on a Sunday
I want to believe its God making up to me....

Friday, 20 September 2013


I have seen people changing not so much for good as for bad. I have seen people changing their attitude towards others not so much humane as indifferent.
I don't know if I have changed for anyone good or bad...but I really miss those beautiful relationships where people just loved each other for the good times spent not as much as money spent.- A pristine heart  </3

Wednesday, 11 September 2013

Life is looking so much so like candy crush where you are stuck and despite of so many tries you are unable to get through this stage.:-P

Monday, 9 September 2013

Dekhlo jitne sapne dekhne hain Kyunki jab hakeekat samne aayegi to chah kar bhi ye sapne ni dekh poaoge

Sunday, 8 September 2013

The star

Somebody just asked me who is your favorite actor and I was speechless for 2 or so minutes. In fact I still don’t have an answer, am still thinking.

The reason why I am wondering so much is because honestly in today’s time it seems all these “stars” seem so not “stars”. Let me elaborate...A STAR spells grandeur, good looks, a divine body somebody that seems so out of this world not only in looks but demeanor as well, something un-achievable by anybody else. Today when I look around it seems so all perfect or better so all plastic- Botox faces, over-pumped –up bodies and they have become so perfect in looking and behaving in some prescribed manner that THE-OUT–OF-THE-WORLD aura seems somewhere lost.

The dramatic entry that our heroes in movies have is so not there anymore. They are too suave, too dapper, but yet you don’t want to look twice. We know about all their flaws, what they are made up of and more so that they are not any different than us. Where as if I am correct, this was the reason that actors in the golden era never let anybody knew of their ailments. As people like me are still searching for someone who is not like me with ups-n-down life but are living a HAPPILY FOREVER.

Maybe my star is that elusive prince charming that I have never seen but the picture is itched through those fairy tales and romantic novels. TALL, DARK, HANDSOME with warmth not a protein bulked up body with pasted smile.

Monday, 2 September 2013

Wednesday, 28 August 2013


Coming down stairs towards the lobby I saw this girl half sitting half lying on the sofa.
A delicate frame with Wild black hair, eyes hidden behind a pair of glasses, tapping her feet on music,  totally engrossed in the newspaper. And I just knew it was love all over again.
I went near where she was sitting but she barely acknowledged my presence. I sat beside her feet yet she couldn't feel.
I knew it would have been better if I was a newspaper instead of being me and began to flip through my phone as I barely would make news for her.flipping through e-news for Business and economy these days can actually make you forget anything to everything. And bang! I get a peck on my cheek and she got back to where she was after giving me the naught-iest miss-in-a-blink wink ;-)
And Even after over a year of our marriage my wife never stops surprising me <3 and "I"- was averse to marriage...man!!
It's not marriage ...it's marrying the right one for you

Friday, 9 August 2013

My Work Diary

I did my graduation in the field my dad thought I should go to. I did my MBA because my dad said it is the best thing to do. I always had my heart on Marketing but Dad said Finance would be the best. I never knew when but to work in a bank became my dream. A dream which came true pretty soon. But created a bitter place for something which was hidden deep in my heart.  But where your heart is not at peace how can you stay there for long.
Approximately 4 years later, I hitted on another job. Though I never wanted it because of the bad experiences of past but desperation or destiny brought the heart to what it always seeked. With so many doubts I began my rendezvous with M-A-R-K-E-T-I-N-G.

It is so aptly said...a large organization is always good to work for the brand it already is but for those lifelong learnings only a small organization can make you meet the real passion.

Thursday, 27 June 2013

Sitting on a couch beside the window, amidst the pitter-patter of rain, a newspaper in your hand #delight #small joys of life

Monday, 29 April 2013

"What goes around comes around"

At times people do certain things or behave with others in ways where they actually exploit the other person. And just because the other person is lower to them they feel a power over them where they can get things done and things matlab ANY DAMN THING.
Such breed is found everywhere be it our relatives, friends, colleagues,  wide spread they are.
And when the same treatment is passed onto them they are appalled and sad. But still never ask themselves what they have done to be treated like this and possibly will never ever.
People call themselves religious and adorn various charms and follow rituals yet forget the simple Theory of Karma -
The faces are different and the exploited never knows who is taking his/her revenge and how. But what goes around comes around too and hits you hard at your weakest

Sunday, 21 April 2013

yeh baarish aur....

 This pitter-patter of rain drops on the roof and the feeling that the weather infuses is beyond words to quote. Clouds all around, a darkness giving hue of best brightness ever.  The energy -refreshing and relaxing at the same time. Then when I stepped out and just felt a few drops on my hair because your hands were there to shelter my mane I knew I had met my soulmate <3

Sunday, 14 April 2013

Innocence that shines through the eyes

And how beautiful it is when you have that innocence in your eyes and a smile so wide on your lips...

A few days back met a few clients..a whole family indeed. The deal was already sold on the table and it was clearly written on  faces  of mommy and the cute little daughter but daddy trying to act the decision-maker and acting stern said “ will think and tell you in a day or so”

Even with the call next morning Mr. Decision maker kept me thinking with his “ abhi kuch socha nahi hai”... But what was the best was the moment when I saw them entering the office in the evening and our cute little girl was smiling ear to ear J

More than the closure the smile on her face made me happy. It was as if the child wanted a toy badly and when she finally got it, could barely contain her happiness. Wow!! What beauty innocence entails...days a child is child till they are in school and all innocence gets lost when they see the ruthless world through college.

Sunday, 31 March 2013

Wednesday, 20 March 2013

Mr. Right !!

If he can speak his mind
and knows when to keep quiet
If he can listen to my heart
and knows what i feel inside
If he can understand me
and make me understand
If he can readily share every bit of his life
and accept every tiny aspect of my life
If he can patt my back
even enjoy sitting idle with me
If he can share—
        a hearty meal
        a good joke
        a sun-set
        a note of admiration
        a shoulder when I am depressed....
If he knows my needs
even before i realise them
If he feels the ineffable pain
that I silently endure
If he yells at me to tears
Yet holds me dear
If he silently approves
A friendship forever
If he cares for me
Yet enjoys teasing me
If he acts just himself
And let me be myself


Thursday, 7 March 2013

Though we don't talk much But I know you want to know more...
Though I couldn't catch you this time But I know your eyes were here....

Sunday, 17 February 2013

To live the enviable fairytale

Just got to know how easy it is to make a living and continue with your passion. Heard about one of my old childhood friend from a client and boy!! what a surprise it was...
When we were kids he was the most notorious of the lot and a total brat..but loved to sing and knowing how the parents of those days used to be..was a regular at the bhajan sessions...
Today he is a lawyer, studied from Bangalore, practicing with his dad...and about his singing he has his own rock band and teaches guitar to  students every weekend.

I dream a lot but possibly do nothing in comparison. It's like I want a jam-packed life but when I get that I am too tired to even get out of my room on a holiday and just do nothing about it. Add to it blame it all on "time nai milta." Hobbies are left aside and hence work becomes a pain. Stress never gets de-stressed...

So now on "Time milta nai Nikalna padta hai" if you want to live your fairytale for real...

Wednesday, 30 January 2013

Your face is mirror of your heart even though the lips are silent, expressions speak volumes.

Monday, 14 January 2013

I love ...I hate...I don't know what I do more.....read somewhere and loved it to the core.